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Tip of the Week: Stop sabotaging your success

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There is a Native American folk tale that a grandfather is telling his grandson. The grandfather explains that he has two wolves inside of him. One wolf fills him with hope and reminds him how wonderful his life is, and the other fills him with doubt and convinces him that nothing is worth the effort. The grandson asks, concerned for his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?" The grandfather replies, "Whichever one I feed."

The two wolves inside of you are your positive motivations to lose weight versus your experience of powerlessness that leads to the uncontrollable urge to eat, and the overeating camp usually wins. Every time you overeat because you are feeling powerless, you reinforce your erroneous belief that you are powerless. You feed the wrong wolf.

No matter how hard you try to diet, no matter how sincere your promise to give up certain foods, you can't stop overeating for very long. When you do, you feel empty or anxious. Feelings of depression and boredom begin to creep in. As long as you remain unaware of the experience of powerlessness and how it's instantaneously transformed into the uncontrollable urge to eat, you can't change it.

Once you begin to look at the fact that overeating has served you in some way, you may be ready to see that the fact that you haven't been able to lose the weight you want has nothing to do with your willpower, and it isn't because you haven't found the right diet or the magic solution either. You haven't been able to lose the weight you want because eating has become an automatic soothing response to the stresses in your life.

The goal of the Shrink Yourself online program is to help you become mindful, conscious, observant and awake in order to find the pause between when you have one of the five experiences of powerlessness and when you begin to overeat. It's only in that space that you can begin to change your emotional eating pattern. Because it happens so quickly, you are not even aware at this point that you are making a decision. But you are. The Shrink Yourself online program helps you learn how to slow things down by looking at the gap between the experience of powerlessness and the uncontrollable urge to eat in great detail, giving you the opportunity to make a different decision and stop sabotaging your success.


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* Shrink Yourself has helped thousands of people with the 12-week online program. With its tested method, it helps you end cravings, food addiction, overeating, emotional eating and even yo-yo diets. Learn about the program! *

9 Comments In the order they were posted.

Shirley said...

HI there, I got the Shrink Yourself book recently and it is great and explains it all in detail why we over eat and its almost as if the writer Roger Gould was talking directly to me when he was writing it!! I have already discovered that its not because my dad was abusive for so long, that has upset me, its the way I have handled it thats the problem. I am going to have to sit down and do the exercises in the book soon. Normally I am not good with exercises in books but this is real important and I need to stop overeating and get my life back. I think the book must be just like the online programme. Shirley x x x

eleanor53 said...

I've purchared the book, "shrink yourself" and I am on page 85. There are so many things in the book that are true. There were several times when I wanted to put the book down because it dealt with the truth a little "too much". If there is anyone who wants to find out why they overeat, buy "shrink yourself". I promise, it will make you think twice before you overeat.

roadshowappraiser said...

Emotional Eating 101 is the best book out there to explain why we have these issues with food. I lost 110 pounds five times now in my life, so I know losing weight/gaining weight is not my issue. It is changing my lifestyle, mindset and food by understanding why I do this to myself. Get the book

Shirley said...

Yes Eleanor, I agree, there are so many things in the book that are true, arent there. I have now just got to the exercises and they are not going to be easy but I must go through them somehow. I need to get to the bottom of this overeating once and for all. I recommend the book to anyone.

Toni said...

I know there is problems but I really don't know how to overcome them. I have read the book loads and I am aware why I overeat, I just feel I can not do anything about my situation.

Liz said...

Like Toni, I feel I am aware of what causes me to overeat, I just don't feel able to reverse the trend.

Jeanette said...

What is my problem, if my life is na happy contented one, great marriage of 34 yrs..all is well. I just love to eat and have no will-power to restrain myself from over-eating. Why do I do it?? I am not much over-weight only about 15-20 pounds. Please tell me if this book would help me. Thanks

Jeanette said...

What is my problem, if my life is a happy contented one, great marriage of 34 yrs..all is well. I just love to eat and have no will-power to restrain myself from over-eating. Why do I do it?? I am not much over-weight only about 15-20 pounds. Please tell me if this book would help me. Thanks

Lori said...

Awesome tip! I love "the pause" part...

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